This is how Baby Butterflys Referral Services works. Adoption Agencies, Adoption Facilitators, as well as Attorney's contact us wanting our help in finding adoptive couples or singles for their particular situation. I would like everyone to know that BABY BUTTERFLYS CONNECTIONS,LLC DOES NOT WORK WITH BIRTH MOMS. There are no upfront fees unless matched. Baby Butterflys is just that, a consultant service, not a licensed Adoption Agency. Once we get a referral, we look at what hopeful adoptive couples we have on file and notify them immediately of the opportunity and then they decide if they wish to be presented or not. Some situations are matched by Dear Birthmother letters, profiles made up by the adoptive couples, or by phone conference. It just depends on the regulations of that particular referring agency.